TEAM WORK

A marriage built with so many foundation... whatever it takes...the foundation should be running as a helper to make some difficult situation turn to be an easier one. When a couple of man and woman get married there must be a solid reason behind the step. There might be love...protection need... services and...biological needs... moreover economic need. Whatever the reasons behind... it would be a strong foundation for they get trough the marriage times and would be a running way when problems come.

Ideally...marriage built with a strong foundation of love and caring. A couple of lovers might doing this step to legalize their togetherness and make a new system of their life that may gives a happiness.

A couple of husband and wife should be a great team to run their marriage life and make a well condition for their kids.

Sometimes the system of an ideal marriage doesn't running well. There must be a fault in one or more side. Maybe poverty...or bad behaviour of the spouse. And when it happen...a marriage is no longer a heaven for them. The least thing often done is taking divorce.

So how do we run our marriage in order to make it heaven on earth?? Just beeing a team... and work as a team. If we see our partner in marriage as a partner in home work... there will be a great system built. Being responsible for our kids is have to be done by husband and wife. House job is not only have to be taken by woman... a good man should always be helping his wife.

A woman should be a comfortable place for her husband to enjoy his life because men are ussually don't want to be chained in a system...their adrenaline make a rebellious attitude if they forced to obey a rule. But a man should be responsible for the economic life of his family. So... a wife should make an environment which is made a man doing his responsible with their own will.

Big respect one each other is one of the most important thing for team working job. If our partner beeing respect on us... we will do the same at him. We have to develop an image that our partner has doing the best on running our marriage system. Make the suspicious think going away from our mind. Just be positive thinking on what our husband doing outside... and the rest...  just give it on God.

Dear Reader...there will be so many trial ahead after wedding day. Make sure our spouse is the best partner for us by making the same vision and mission in our life. Difference point of view is so..normal. Take it as a contrast harmony to color our life. Different point of view can be a great way to solve our problem. And it can deny us from boring. 

Don't be shy to say " I'm sorry" when we made a mistake. A pure sorry saying would make everything clear than being feel "I always right". So Reader... let's make our marriage a heaven on earth. Keep your team work well... Keep your marriage harmonically running... So that we'll always be Survive !!